Alexandria, VA – Alexandria has lost one of its most beloved treasures. Thomas A. “Tom” Hulfish III, 91, passed away in mid-August—his memory as enduring as the cobblestones of Old Town, and his legacy forever woven into the architectural fabric of our city.
A Sixth-Generation Alexandrian
Born into a family whose Alexandria roots stretch back to 1780, when a Scottish sea captain ancestor first arrived on the waterfront, Tom often reflected fondly on his upbringing. “Alexandria was a great place to grow up,” he once told the Alexandria Gazette Packet. “I loved playing along the industrial waterfront. Alexandria was here because of the river and when the railroad arrived it became a busy, busy town.”
As a child, he counted among his friends Willard Scott—who later became the beloved Today Show weatherman and original Ronald McDonald. That deep sense of place and community shaped Tom’s outlook for life. He often lamented that too many newcomers failed to fully embrace Alexandria: “I know so many people who live here and really don’t know Alexandria at all because they don’t do anything other than go to work in Washington and come home. The best way to enjoy Alexandria is to join the community. Do something. Join organizations—churches, civic associations—anything to take part in the community.”
Preservation in His Blood
Tom’s passion for history and preservation was inspired by his parents. His mother, Marianne “Polly” Hulfish, restored or renovated more than 50 properties in Old Town and later served on the Board of Architectural Review (BAR). His father, Thomas Hulfish Jr., served on City Council and was one of two council members who successfully championed Alexandria’s first preservation “Old and Historic District” ordinance in 1946 to protect landmark structures from demolition
Following in their footsteps, Tom himself became one of the city’s leading voices in preservation. He served for decades on the BAR, including a term as chair, ensuring that Old Town’s historic character would be protected for generations to come. His steady guidance and insistence on thoughtful stewardship influenced nearly every block of the historic district.
A Community Advocate and Mentor
Beyond his official roles, Tom was a true neighbor and mentor. Friends and colleagues describe him as a man who gave generously of his time and wisdom, guiding new residents, supporting local causes, and reminding everyone of the importance of civic engagement. His devotion extended beyond buildings to people—always encouraging Alexandrians to take part in shaping their community.
An Enduring Legacy
Today, as Alexandria pauses to mourn his passing, Tom’s legacy can be seen in every preserved façade, every cobblestone street, and every protected historic district. He will be remembered not just as a guardian of Old Town’s heritage but as a man whose life embodied service, friendship, and love for his hometown.
[Editor’s Note: Service information has not been shared publicly as of press date.]
